Of course, these are my opinion’s and the idea’s of a particular branch of philosophy I follow, that’s a philosophy for being happy and it’s also recognized as a philosophy of achievement.
Ever wondered what love is or means and how do you know you’re in love? Here goes, you can only love what you value or you can only love someone that has the correct values. I will explain, you could ask a person, do you love your wife or husband? They will probably without hesitation reply yes! Okay, let us say, Mr’s Jones, is married to, Mr. Jones. Now Mr. Jones has been caught having several affairs including a couple before they were married, he would rather spend money on smoking, drink, gambling, drugs and what makes him happy, he lies, has no aim or ambition in life to better himself and in general, has no redeeming qualities. An outsider looking on would probably struggle to understand how any woman could love a man like this.
It’s worth pointing out that if you asked Mr. Jones do you love your wife he would probably say yes. So, how could Mr. Jones do anything to harm someone he loves, his wife? Simple, he has absolutely no value for his wife, her feelings and the impact his actions has on their marriage. In other words, he can’t possibly love his wife!
So what’s going on when a man or woman could be with someone that has no qualities? It’s probably a combination of low self-esteem, they’re trapped in the relationship due to finances, they’re being guided by the way they feel, meaning, it’s just easier to put up with the person than go through the turmoil a divorce would cause and last but not least the person’s subconscious mind has skewwhiff ideas about what they are attracted to.
You’ve probably heard the phrase, it’s an acquired taste, over time a person develops an ideal type of person to be with. These are mostly physical attributes such as short, tall, blue/brown eyes etc. However, probably by accident, while developing all these obvious tastes all the other, not very helpful, crap gets programmed into the subconscious mind.
How many times have you heard someone say what on earth is that nice good looking person doing with him or her he/she could do much better than that! It’s simple really, even the nice good looking person’s conscious mind knows they could do much better than the unattractive loser they’ve ended up with. Unfortunately, the subconscious mind has other ideas about who an ideal person is for you. The subconscious mind is reluctant to allow you to let go of a perfect match to whatever is programmed into the subconscious and will compel you to stay with this perfect match even if your conscious is screaming at you to get rid of them!
There are probably a few ways that a person could benefit from hypnosis to fall out of love with someone.
1, If you find you are constantly ending up with someone that causes nothing but turmoil in your life and there are few good times you are probably being drawn to the wrong type for you.
2, Most of your relationships have been okay but it’s just one person needs to be dealt with (get them out of your head), Kyle Minogue this time.
3, You’ve been in a relationship that was okay but you’ve both mutually agreed it’s time to move on but you can’t let go of the person.
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Michael Real Hypnotherapy